Monthly Archives: July 2010

Peapods–Natural Parenting Mecca

It all began about 7 years ago. Proeun and I were newly married and at his insurance office near Snelling and St. Clair in St. Paul. My brand new sister in law was expecting her 3rd baby and I was trying to think of a good gift for her. Things were taking longer then expected at the insurance office (which has since moved) so I went out to look at some of the local shops and I wandered in to Peapod’s for the first time.

I had grown up with stories of cloth diapers, many were still around the house and used for rags by the time I was helping with the cleaning. My mom would always tell funny stories about  how she would use cloth diapers on me all the time but as soon as my dad watched me he would break out the disposables.

So 7 years ago I walked into Peapod’s and saw this,

Well almost, it’s been a couple years and they have new products all the time but you get the idea. I bought a dozen pre-folds and a little froggie bummis diaper cover for me sister in law. About a year later I had my own little baby to cloth diaper. Honestly my sister in law had never used hers so I tactfully asked for them back added to my stash and began.

Three babies now have grown up in cloth diapers. But while Two was a lighter wetter and more predictable in schedule Avril was a very heavy wetter and completely unpredictable. I tried elimination communication, I read about it from a book I got at Peapods, but went back to the diapers to save my sanity.

Recently I was reading a blog post from Farmama called “stuff.” In it she talks about the trash we generate and how her philosophy has always been if she wouldn’t want it in her backyard she shouldn’t use it as it will most likely end up in someone else’s. I thought about it and realized disposable diapers are definitely something I wouldn’t want in my backyard.

Here I will make a confession. I had been using disposables at night (to save my sheets), sometimes when traveling and often while camping. After reading this post I decided to lay down a new lease. Last time we went camping I brought my cloth diapers though we still used disposables at night.

So today I finally had a chance to go to Peapod’s and get some diapers for heavy wetters. I only bought a few to try.  I bought 2 Kissaluv’s fitted diapers, 1 Bummi’s training pants, and 1 Prorap snap cover.

The children were hoping for more.

It’s always a danger when going to Peapod’s.

There is so much to see and enjoy.

On a side note it was at Peapod’s that I discovered attachment parenting. I was there one day when Two was a baby buying more diapers and asked, “are there any support groups or anything around?” Kind of a clumsy question I know but the kindly shop owner who actually uses all this stuff on his own children reffered me to a local Attachment Parenting International group and the rest is history. Soon I was planning a home birth, knitting my own diaper covers, delaying solids till sometime around one and proudly co- sleeping (we had done this from the beginning anyway now we just weren’t afraid to tell people about it).

Peapod’s has definitely done alot for me and the family so if you are in the area please stop by at 251 Snelling Ave South, St. Paul, MN 55105 or call at 1 866 WOOD TOY.

Maybe I’ll see on an upcoming trip I am planning to buy more diapers for the baby.

Much needed R and R

There is something about sleeping animals and children. I was trying to think of what I should write about today and then walked in the bedroom and saw Austin sleeping like this and had to smile, run and get my camera and then I knew what I would write about.

As any mom of small children knows sometimes vacations are not all that relaxing–especially when missed naps are involved. So I am actually getting my R and R now. Thursdays are fast becoming my favorite day of the week. I love packing our CSA boxes, infact it is probably my favorite on farm work. Then I get to deliver all the boxes. I made a deal with the children that if they sleep while I am delivering boxes (read quiet ride) they can skip nap. They normally try to do that. Finally we have a really good excuse to stay home all evening and get things done around the house, or not as in the case of today.

Since the children got to skip nap today I took a solo one, a nice treat, plus I got to journal, cuddle with Austin and read a bit. A very nice day all in all.

For those home cooking tonight here is our Newletter for this week.

Our first train ride

If I haven’t said it before we had a really fun weekend. In addition to going to a fur trade rendezvous and seeing a very nice fireworks display so close we could see the little man walking back and forth in a cloud of smoke our family took their first train ride together.

The local Kiwanis club was offering rides as a fundraiser. We got on the first ride. There on an air conditioned passenger car (the green and yellow one) and a caboose that was not air conditioned and very popular.

I let the my parents and the older children ride in the caboose while Proeun, Mavis and I rode in the passenger car.

Two wasn’t happy with that decision, and still upset when we got back to camp. It is so hard when we disappoint our children! But after a few hugs and kisses and listening to how he felt he was better.

Our tickets.

Two running for the train. Do you think he’s excited?

View from the window–the paper company on Dunlap island. Kind of puts all our paper use in perspective. 

While my parents had ridden trains before for my little family it was our first time, and very cool.

A Walk Back in Time

Every July 4th weekend a local fur trade reenacting group holds a rendezvous on Dunlap Island in Cloquet, Minnesota. We just happen to go camping near Cloquet about once a month during the summer. And did I mention that my first job was as a “historical intrepretor” at Historic Fort Snelling, a part of the Minnesota Historical Society. While there I did my share of reenacting for fun on the weekends including one 1812 reenactment with my mother and sister. So a fur trade rendezvous is kind of up my alley.

I have a deep love of history for a lot of reasons but I love what it tells us about us. Fur Trade history is big in Minnesota and is everywhere.

No matter how you feel about furs and trapping I think most people would agree it is fascinating. Cultures collided for good or ill. Rugged beauty and wilderness, hand crafts and personal livelihoods supported high fashion back east.

Here Two is guessing which animals the furs came from. He was pretty good at it actually. The furs were donated by the Minnesota DNR.

Here Two sports a coyote hat.

Two handles baby mocassins. I always wanted to make a pair.

Avril is drawn to the beaded items.

I was reading a book that discussed Ancient Greek culture. The book claimed that during this time period a person was considered wealthy based upon talents and skills. Maybe that is what has always drawn me to the past. I love hand made items, there is a beauty in them few things can rival.

There were a few people even making things there like this blacksmith demonstrating his craft.

We bought a few things at his booth including a trade silver necklace for Two and hand blown glass beads strung into a necklace for the girls while we waited.

Of course hand made candy is the best. This gentleman owns a candy shop in Kentucky where he is a licensed confectioner but he travels 50 weeks out of the year to share his favorite treats from a simple tent.

There was even good music. All in all it was a pretty great trip back in time.

The General and the Camera

For those of you that don’t know I am a writer for the Hmong Times, a local ethnic paper. I have been with them for over 7 years, before I was a mom, farmer, or Amy Doeun. It’s hard to put in words (even for a writer!) what the experience has meant to me, including what I have learned about myself, culture in general, sharing culture, and being a world citizen in my own backyard. The Hmong people are an ethnic group from Southeast Asia. They came to America through a long and complicated history involving war, the CIA and lots more. For more information about them I recommend the book A People’s History of the Hmong by my good friend Paul Hillmer.

One of the things that I find striking about the Hmong community is their respect for “The General” the past 50 plus years General Vang Pao has been a guiding influence for his people, lobbying for rights and advocating for needs. He and a select group of elders have lead their people through much turmoil in the past 50 years, including efforts to safely resettle virtually a whole population uprooted by war. This year the General turns 80. It is also the 30th Hmong Freedom celebration (and 30th anniversary of Hmong settlement in St. Paul) at nearby Como Park.

This event is the event in the Hmong community and families gather from all over the country and the world. Last night I had the pleasure of attending the opening dinner celebration at Aldrich Arena a few miles from my home.

The General was there. As always when he is introduced the entire company stands with respect. I have yet to actually meet the General and if I did I would probably be completely star struck honestly. But I was close enough to him to get a picture, if I had a better camera. While I am a writer our paper is small and so I am often photographer as well. I have always had an interest in the art form of photography but for some reason have yet to pursue. Last night as i was oh so close to an amazing personage but didn’t want to get in his face with my rinky dink camera (did I mention the children were in tow) I decided my goal for next year is to save for a really nice camera and become a photographer in addition to a writer.

Another close friend of mine Seexeng Lee  produced his own tribute to the General in the form of a series of paintings, on hand for signing as a birthday gift to the General. Seexeng is an art teach in Minneapolis Public Schools and a well known artist in his own right.

This weekend will be a busy one celebrating in the Doeun household. We work hard, so we can play hard. More on Monday.

Zucchini Has Arrived! over and over again

The zucchini is here. I don’t have much experience with this plant. A couple years ago I think we had a plant or two in our backyard garden but nothing like now where we must have close to 300 plants. The thing about zucchini is once they start producing they do it prolifically. We picked on Wednesday for our larger CSA account. We thought we picked everything available but today low and behold there were already close to 50 more ready to go.

This was the first week zucchini appeared in our CSA’s box as well and I think it will be a presence for many weeks to come. In the Doeun household our favorite way to eat them is sliced thick, drizzled with olive oil and sprinkled with salt then roasted at 400 degrees until just tender. I have eaten them at least once a day for 3-4 days now. So this afternoon Mavis and I tried something else,

Dell’s Zucchini Brownies from my favorite vegan cookbook– “The Best of Veggies.”

Here’s the recipe.

1/3 cup olive oil
1/2 cup sucanat
1 1/2 tsp vanilla
1 3/4 cup whole wheat flour
1 tsp cardamon or cinamon
1/2 tsp salt
1/2 chopped nuts (optional)
1/2 cup carob chips
1 cup grated zucchini

Combine all ingredients. Add baking powder last (I didn’t see it on the ingredient list so I added 1 tsp) Pour batter into well oiled 9 x 9inch pan. Bake at 350 degrees for 30-35 minutes.

The batter was really thick and I had to mix it with my hands and it definitely didn’t pour. I think it came out more like bread but with a nice flavor.

I have more creative zucchini recipes to share and I think I’ll have lots of zucchini to practice on. We did get that gopher on his way to another plant, now we just have to make sure there aren’t anymore with a taste for zucchini.

Here is the newsletter for this week with my favorite zucchini recipe “Zucchini Chocolate Chip Cookies.”